Everyone you marry has a weakness. Every rose flower has its own thorn.If you focus too much on your spouse's weakness, you can't get the best out of his or her strength.Some people you marry has a dark secret,everyone you marry has a dark history.No one is an Angel,therefore,avoid digging one's past.What matters is the present life of your partner.Old things are passed away.Try to forgive and forget.The past can't be change.So Focus on the present and the future.Marriage is not bed of roses.Every shinning marriage has gone through its own test of hot and excruciating fire.Every marriages has its own challenges.True love is proved in time of challenge.Fight for your marriage.when your marriage is in a shake,prove people wrong that you can keep your marriage without friends or family coming to interfere.
Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in time of hardship and tribulation.Remember this is the vow you made on your wedding day.
Don't compare your marriage with anyone.We can never be equal,some will be far in front and others far behind.Every marriages has a different levels of success.To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time, your marriage dreams shall come true.When you marry, you must declare a war against enemies of marriage.Some of the enemies of marriage are: Ignorance, Prayerlessness,Unforgiveness, Adultery, Third Party Influence, Stinginess,Stubbornness,Lack Of Love, Rudeness,Wife battery,Laziness,divorce etc.
Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.There is no ready made marriage anywhere.Marriage is hard work, volunteer yourself and perfect it daily.Marriage is like a car with Gear oil, gear box, back hassles and If this parts are not properly maintained,the car will breake down somewhere along the road and exposing the occupant to unhealthy circumstances.Many of us are careless about our marriage.Are you? If you are, please pay attention to your marriage.
For example God cannot give you the Complete person you desire he only gives you, him or her in the form of raw materials in order for you to mould what you desire.
You may desire a woman who can pray for 1 hours but your wife can only pray for 30 minutes.With your love,prayer and encouragement,she can improve.More so,marriage is a risk ,to marry is to take a risk.You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, as situation may change, so, leave a room for adjustment.Pregnancy may not come in the next four years.You may get married to her because she's slim but she becomes 100% fatter after a child.He may lose his beautiful job for years that you have to take the financial responsibility of the family until he gets a new job.But with prudent and hardwork,you will smile at last.
Marriage needs total commitment,love is the glue that makes a couple stick together.Marriage is not a contract, so therefore it is permanent.Divorce starts in the mind.Never think of divorce.Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married.Marriage is like a bank account.It is the money you deposit into your bank account that you can withdrawn.If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage,you are not a candidate of a blissful home.There is no free love in marriage,You cannot love without giving and sacrificing.May the Grace and wisdom abide in us to build a happy Marriage.