The act of giving is receiving,one good turn deserve another.When it comes to giving,many married people are generous to everybody except their spouses.There are six things you should give your spouse daily.This things are not weekly,monthly or annually.They are things you must give your spouse daily to make that relationship or marriage grows stronger and unshakeable.
☀Give your spouse a touch: Regular touch or massage is one of the ways to bond with your spouse.We have encouragement touch,affirmation touch, healing touch,apology touch,massage touch and sexual touch.Study your partners and know what touch to give at a particular time.Touch symbolises love and affection.Don't let your day go like that without touching your spouse.
☀Give your spouse a Space: In as much
as you need to bond with your spouse and be together for daily. Intimacy,communication,affection,
planning etc but yet you still need to
give your spouse his or her space.There is time for spouse to eat,time for spouse to talk,time for spouse to bond and time for spouse to go out on date.But spouse need some space apart.Being together often times can choke your spouses.Don't be over possessive and over demanding to your spouse.Stop unnecessary policing and monitoring.Give your spouse a
space because they definitely need it, being together all the time can bring up a argument,quarrel or a fight.
☀Give your spouse a call or chat:Some people can chat with all the contacts on their phones and all the friends on their on social media.But they will never chat or call their spouse throughout the day.Chatting or calling your spouse in a day at work is a way of saying.Dear despite my busy schedule,I have you in mind.I am thinking about you.Make sure you send a chat,or give a call to your spouse.Make it a daily thing.No body can be tired of receiving a caring chat or a
call from someone they love.
☀Give your spouse a Hug:Hugging is fast disappearing in many relationships or marriages today.It has been researched that hugging is one of the emotional needs of every human being.It is scarcity of spousal hug that makes many men to hug ladies who are not their wives indiscriminately.Many
women too crave for hugs and they allow every Tom and Jerry to hug them because their husbands are not giving them hug.It might be in the morning or at night,let no day pass without hugging your spouse.It is one valuable thing you must give your spouse.It could be a welcoming hug,a goodbye hug,an appreciating hug, affirmative hug. Hugging is a non verbal means of communication.Use it well.Don't let your husband or wife crave for hug from strangers or in your relationship when you are still alive.Hug passionately.Hug romantically.
☀Give your spouse a smile:smiles is a sign of happiness,joy is in one's heart.In a home when couple smile at each other it means there is love between them.A smile is a way of telling your spouse,you delighted in me,your presence amuses me,I am pleased with you.Frowning at your spouse is not a thing that should last a whole day.When there is a frown among the two, it means there is so much hate.One of the way to know your marriage or relationship is smelling is when you are not smiling with each other. Always smile because it is one of the best gifts you can give your spouse in a day.
I love to smile alot and I love to see my Queen smile.I don't like people who are
not generous with their smile.No matter the circumstances you find yourself make it possible to wear a smile.It is free and you don't need to pay to smile.Just relax your muscles and smile.Couple smile, keep smiling to prevent your relationship or marriage from smelling,keep smiling with your spouse even if it hurts to do so.
☀Give your spouse Peace of mind:The home is the end-point of everything we do daily.Let me explain it this way.If you are a doctor,you can't sleep in the hospital all the days of your life.You will need to come home.If you are an engineer, you can't sleep in the site all days.If you are a lawyer,you can't sleep in the bar all days. Even as a pastor,you can't be in the Church 24/7.We all must go back home. Home is the end point.So,if your spouse will be excited to come home,it must be a
peaceful home.Stop nagging, fighting, insulting, abusing ,threatening, and humiliating your spouse.Give him or her a rest of mind.