The reason why most men refer village girls to city girls.

City girls are very sophisticated, fun,seductive,beautiful,approachable and good to be with,but why are men going back to the village to pick a wife?This is the reasons men go back to the village to select their spouse instead of marrying their city counterparts.Alot of me like good food.They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.Men love food and no man likes to return home and not meet a well prepared meal.Village ladies have the upper hand when it comes to performing wonders in the kitchen.Those delicacies that melt a man’s heart and remind him of those nostalgic past are made real by village ladies.Every meal is likely to be a sensation and not the usual rice and bread that is adopted during bachelorhood,city girls on the other hand dwell on refrigerating and microwaving food which does not give the same result.Some even order meals from eatery or road side food vendors or drag their spouse to a restaurant.Men would rather go for a home-made meal prepared with fresh ingredients and spiced with condiments rather than keep a daily date in the restaurant.

Talking about attitude,Village girls  grow up with the right orientation and attitude which is what most men desire.Little attributes like saying ‘good morning’ and ‘thank you’ can go a long way to make a man happy.Village girls are brought up with a drilling knowledge of respect and attitude.City girls exude behaviours that raise doubt about their attitudes and orientation and men try to avoid ladies without the right attitude.Submissiveness is another key points while men prefer village girls to city girls.Either by nature or nurture,men feel they are superior to women and like it when they get a lot of respect from women.No man wants to marry a woman if he knows she will challenge his superiority.Men know that most city girls have been so exposed to similar and equal life styles that can lead to tension in the home.Men know that village girls pose no threat when it comes to class and level and feel more comfortable with that rather than engaging in a class tug of war with a city lady.

We talk about homely quality, village girls  have very homely qualities that make a man happy.They know it is their duties to do the dishes, laundry,cook, make the home and still take care of the children.City girls however feel that the modern world in its unwritten law desire men to also help in the house chores and not many men are adept at doing that. With a village girls,however,no question about who will do the house chores because slot of them are very hardworking.And again the issue of career is always a big problem to men.As much as men love successful women, they dislike it when a woman’s job becomes her priority and he his relegated to the second position.The higher a woman goes,the more a man finds her unapproachable.Village girls are very enterprising and as well know how  to combine the home with the family
Properly which is what men prefer.Beauty is not left out, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.City girls are very attractive but men have discerned the difference between natural beauty and the artificial  beauty.Making oneself with so much cosmetics is sometimes disgusting,city girls are very adept in transforming themselves into angels that it would be difficult to tell the difference between the ‘former and later picture’.Men know they are seeing the real picture when they meet a village Girl and not a black-to-white transformation that is typical of city girls.

Village girls are very easy to understand and  are cool-headed and have learnt to tame their emotion so as to allow them understand their spouse.Men like it when a woman understands situations without asking too much questions.City girls though educated and intelligent sometimes lack the basic sense required in understanding the mood and turmoil of a man and this can lead to tension when they cannot act appropriately.Men would rather marry a village girl knowing that there is a telepathic understanding between the two of them.Fidelity in marriage, the city lifestyle is a wild one and most girls in the city have been swept away by the tide.Some girls find it difficult to deal with the sexual strength and capacity of their husband because they have been exposed to different sexual escapades.Ironically, it is the same men who engage these girls who know that it will be dangerous to have them in the home.They will feel they have already explore to sexuality which  might pose the possibility of marital infidelity.

They feel more confident  and comfortable in marrying village girl who to an extent can guarantee fidelity.Wife material is an expression used to describe a lady that encapsulates all the qualities that a man wants in a woman.Men try to select a woman with wife material when they eventually want to get married.They feel that city girls have little or no wife material and therefore cast their nets in the village where they are likely to find girls who have yards and yards of wife material.But have to say,this not a big criteria to finding a good wife, because this days we are in global community and digital world every body has wisen up, even the village girls you think are better off don't tire eye well well.
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