Relationship is a close association or acquaintance between two or more people.In a relationship people break up and get back together all of the time and this may be dysfunctional,may be unhealthy,may be toxic,but there's also something beautiful and genuine about it.They will always be drawn to each other and they will always have that damaged,but unbreakable connection.It won't always be rosy and fun filled,it won't always be exciting, and it won't always be easy,but that's okay because the pain is only a reminder that you truly care.It also shows how strong they are and how they're willing to fight for one another because a real relationship is two imperfect people refusing to give up on each other.Sometimes,you have to walk away to realize what you're leaving behind.Sometimes,you have to let go in order to remember why you held on for so long.Sometimes,you have to lose someone so you can find their worth and value again.There will be days where you won't deserve each other,there will be times where you will hate each other,and there will be moments where you will feel like you're truly done.But in the end,your heart will always be in the right place.Your mind might not always be in the right place,but your heart always will be.Everybody will judge and have their opinion on it,but as long as you two understand each other and know your relationship,that's all that matters.It will never be perfect,it will never be ideal,but it will last because they both know that even if they leave each other from time to time,they will always find each other again.
''One of the biggest reason why relationships do not work out in the long run is because at one point,one side (or both) stops trying.Before one claims another person as their significant other, they would do anything to make that person happy.They would chase,they would flirt,they would be charming.They would send daily morning and goodnight texts every time you wake up or go to sleep.They would write corny messages and pick up lines just to make sure that there is a smile upon your face.But once they claim you as theirs,all of those things eventually stop.The 5 page texts slowly turn into 1. The constant calls turn into not calling at all.And the lovely endearments turn into daily arguments.In order for a relationship to work,don’t ever stop chasing.Just because the person you want is now consider “yours”, it does not mean they deserve anything less than the time when you’re trying to win them over.Sometimes it’s better to move on than to hold on to a person who doesn’t understand you.Sometimes your absence will teach what your presence cannot.Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn’t meant to work.You can’t force someone to care about you.You can’t force someone to be loyal.You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be.
''Sometimes the person you want most is the person you’re best without.You have got to understand some things are meant to happen,but just not meant to be.Some things are meant to come in your life,just not meant to stay.Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what is meant to stay broken. You can’t get the relationship you need from someone who’s not ready to give it to you.And I know it’s hard when your heart has labeled that person as someone you could spend forever with,but you just have to accept that they’re not that person anymore.And you might not understand WHY NOW, but I promise you your future will always bring understanding of why things didn’t work out.
''It is better to be alone and be happy than to be in a miserable relationship.Whoever sees you as an option doesn't deserve to be a priority in your life,you call him or her a pet name but he or she treats you like a monkey.He/she is your everything but you are nothing to him/her.You are doing everything to make it work,but they keep thinking you are desperate and turns all your efforts to weakness.Never keep awake thinking about someone who is deeply sleeping with someone else.Never stay a minute thinking about someone who cant spend a second thinking about you.Leave that person who take your love for granted and doesn't' love you back the way you do,Love should be balanced not based one side.Its better to be single than being in an ugly relationship that will make you cry forever.
BASIC FACTS THAT MAKES A RELATIONSHIP TO BE PERFECT
☀Men should learn to love a woman for who she is and how she treats you.Not by how she looks or what she gives you.
☀Love makes the relationship.Trust makes the difference in the success of the relationship.
☀Sometimes,when you want someone, you keep making reasons to make it seem like the person likes you too. That's how you get hurt.
☀To love Someone is to wait for them, but you need to love yourself too, by knowing when to walk away.
☀Always know the difference between what you are getting and what you deserve.
☀The only person who thinks you are weird is the person who is not made for you.When you meet your real soul-mate,the person whose energy connects with yours,you will have no need to change who you are.
☀Your soul-mate will be attracted to you by the same thing that scares or disgusts other people about you.
☀love me for me; If there is one thing I learnt from life,it is to remain original and never change for anybody.Don't be in love with someone to the point of changing who you are for them.It never ends well.Please note,don't in anyway endorse your shitty attitude towards people.Don't be treating people like trash and be saying that it is your nature.It is not your nature,that is bad.People don't take that as being original.
MATURITY IN A RELATIONSHIP
The difference between dating a boy or a girl and dating a man or a woman in a relationship;
"When you date a boy or girl,they are always immature in a relationship,they always have tendency that they will play game,they are unfaithful and not trustworthy and not matured thus not knowing what it means to keep a relationship going.They are prone to anger and jealousy.They are not sensitive towards feelings when one partner start sharing what is in their mind.
"When you date a man or woman,expect them to keep it real.They are mature.They reassure you that you shouldn't be jealous.They are high expectations of what you want in a relationship.They are a bit considerate and flirts only with their sexual partners.They spend quality time with their partner and consoles one another when something goes wrong.They are always willing to compromise when there is a problem.